Dystopia’s Child

National Adoption Month “Dystopia’s Child” was originally published in LUMINA vol. XVIII. Yesterday I republished it on Medium.com. Because… November is National Adoption Awareness Month. Not just happy stories As…
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Families at the Border

Separating parents and children Families at the border are suffering. We weep. Tear our hair. Exclaim to the heavens about the un-American practice of separating children and parents at the…
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Hart Family Tragedy

Six children are dead There were six Hart children, all adopted from foster care. And now, though not all bodies have yet been found, authorities think all of them perished…
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Adoption is Everywhere

Adoptees and birthparents are everywhere But sometimes it feels like a secret society, this adoption thing. I’ve been at a writer’s residency the past month at the Vermont Studio Center….
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An Essay About Reunion

My essay about reunion has been published in “The Beacon,” the newsletter of the American Adoption Congress. Reunion, as we know, is a really big deal. Probably everyone involved in…
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The Adoption Museum Project

In my morning scroll though Facebook, I stumbled across a post that had to do with The Adoption Museum.  The what? I said. The what? The Adoption Museum Project?! The initial…
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Simone Biles’s Birthmother

About Simone Biles’s birthmother Here’s the link to a newspaper article about Simone Biles’s birthmother. I read it twice. And I also read another interview with her in the Huffington…
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What to Say to a Birthmother

Do you know a birthmother? There are millions of us birthmothers. For every adoptee, there is one of us. We’re your sisters, your friends, your aunts, your cousins, your teammates,…
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Adoption and Coincidence

A play about adoption “The Importance of Being Earnest” is, at it’s heart, a play about identity. I saw a production of it Saturday that was a perfect confection. The…
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National Adoption Month

How N. A. M. began National Adoption Month began in 1976 in the state of Massachusetts as a way of bringing awareness to the plight of children in foster care….
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Multi-Generational Loss

Unknown grandchildren I became a grandmother 13 years ago last week. But here’s the thing. It’s quite likely that I might never have known that I was a grandmother. All…
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