“Birth Mother” is on audible.com

My memoir, “Birth Mother,” published last summer by Shebooks is now available on audible.com. I’ve listened to the sample, and while it’s kind of strange for me to hear another voice…
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Burger King Baby Update

A Burger King baby update tells us that things are going well! Of all the adoption stories out there on Facebook, this one has certainly captured my heart. I blogged…
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Adoption Begins With Loss

National Adoption Month What I would like to say to everyone who is happily celebrating National Adoption Month is this: Every adoption begins with loss. You are happy. But. Some…
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Adoptees and Medical History

Closed records hide medical history Adult adoptees often don’t know their medical history. Treated as perpetual children, in most U.S. states they have no access to their medical histories. Why?…
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National Adoption Month

How N. A. M. began National Adoption Month began in 1976 in the state of Massachusetts as a way of bringing awareness to the plight of children in foster care….
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Birthmothers Everywhere!

No matter where I go This past month I’ve been to Albuquerque and to Santa Barbara for T’ai Chi Chih retreats, and I’ve done some traveling with friends in Hawaii….
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Multi-Generational Loss

Unknown grandchildren I became a grandmother 13 years ago last week. But here’s the thing. It’s quite likely that I might never have known that I was a grandmother. All…
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Adoption: Anti vs Pro

A story about taking sides Adoption. Anti vs. Pro. I don’t want a line in the sand. I’m not pro-adoption, and I don’t want to be anti-adoption either. But. Please…
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Access to Birth Records

Unrestricted access Adoptees need access to their birth records. Only 9 U.S. states currently provide adult adoptees unrestricted access to their original birth certificates. Although partial access or restricted access…
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Concerned United Birthparents

Attending a CUB meeting I attended a Concerned United Birthparents (CUB) meeting on Saturday. I went to share the good news of getting my memoir published. And I went to…
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Sealed Adoption Records

A sealed original birth certificate Want to know how to obtain an original birth certificate? Let’s start HERE. It’s a WikiHow. And it’ll take less than a minute of your…
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